By ibuelto, 14 July, 2026
What if independence isn’t about moving out? A reflection on parenting, immigrant families, shared responsibility, and raising resilient children without trauma.
By ibuelto, 16 June, 2026
This post serves as a motivational reminder to myself to choose creative expression, empathy, and purpose over expectations, and to define success on my own terms.
By ibuelto, 28 April, 2026
After loss and reflection, this piece explores how thinking about death reveals a deeper truth: meaning in life comes from connection, not time.
By ibuelto, 17 April, 2026
A thoughtful poem on love and connection, offering timeless guidance on building strong, meaningful relationships through growth, resilience, and care.

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By ibuelto, 30 March, 2026
Stuck in a career that didn’t fit, I asked one question that changed everything. Here’s how I went from hospitality to software engineering without going back to school.
By ibuelto, 18 February, 2026
A reflection on growing up too soon, carrying family responsibility into adulthood, and learning that real protection isn’t about carrying everything — it’s about building something strong enough that no one has to.
By ibuelto, 1 February, 2026
This Black History Month, I’m reflecting on my journey as a first-generation American unlearning inherited biases. A personal look at Garifuna roots, Black identity, and finding connection at AfroTech.